R- a friend is a rare and ready rock you can run to in the rain. He will rescue you from rushing rivers- regardless. He will revive your heart, refresh your soul, and reassure you of rapid recovery.
I- a friend is not impatient or impolite. She will inquire about your day and include you in her plans. She will identify your most incredible ideas and ingenious innovations. A friend is interesting, inspiring, and indispensable. She is the keeper of your most intimate secrets.
E- a friend is a friend till the end. He is eager to listen and easy to talk with. He's your most energetic encourager. A friend will embrace you even in the midst of your most embarrassing encounters.
N- a friend will not nag (unless it is absolutely necessary). Naturally, she knows your deepest needs and is also nice enough to nudge you when you're neglecting your nest, being too nosy, or contemplating nonsense.
D- a friend is devoted and dependable. Her destiny is to divert you from defeat, and her devices for depression usually involve the delicious. It's a friend's divine duty to drown your disappointments and dispose of your dismay, and many times she does it in a most delightful way!
from Hugs for Friends
This is just a little something I found and enjoyed a lot. I have found myself lately struggling more and more to figure out who is really there for me and who isn't. It amazes me that the people you never expected to stay by your side are the ones who are there, and the ones that you thought you would have for your lifetime leave you. Although when you have your "best friend", you are supposed to be able to let your guard down. I believe that there are VERY few people in a persons life that you can let your guard down with. So as harsh as this may sound just know that sometimes in life, no matter how close you are to someone...it may never be safe to completely let your guard down.
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I would love to say it gets easier as you grow older and wiser, but it doesn't. I have found that I have formed many different kinds of friendships that serve different purposes. The key is finding out who serves what purpose and rely on that person for those reasons. Good luck as you continue with these questions!
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